• Should Herpes Be A Reason For Lowering Your Standards On Your Relationships? Posted by Admin

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    Often when things do not work out as desired or planned, some people will not mind settling for less, this shouldn’t be the best option. Genital herpes is a common STD that any sexually active person can get. Lately, it has been on the increase especially among the Americans, about one out of every six individuals between the ages of 14 and 19 in the US are infected with the herpes virus. Research also has it that about 20% of the US adults have the herpes virus. The genital herpes is an STD that is highly stigmatized, people tend to dissociate themselves and stay away from herpes patients in all possible means. This has been the primary reason why some people living with herpes embrace loneliness and reduce their relationship standards.

    Undoubtedly, the genital herpes is so common that some people living with it do not even know and this increases the rate of spread of the disease. When you are diagnosed with the herpes virus, it is common to feel depressed and rejected due to the stigmatization and isolation that definitely will follow up but this shouldn’t alter your standard on a relationship.

    Herpes is not what people think it is, and as such, you shouldn’t belittle yourself or bring down your standards on relationships. Now that you have genital herpes, you are out of the relationships and dating scene right? Certainly not! Of course, the way people see this STD will make you think that living with the virus is the worst thing ever in life, you may believe that you are dirty and can't even have a say in your choice of a partner or a relationship. Having herpes doesn’t mean that you are the worst, it is an STD anyone could catch, stop feeling depressed and go for your dream relationships.

    Regrettably, ignorance and lack of the right information have been the trigger to the stigmatization that follows genital herpes. Certainly, when you educate yourself about herpes, you will put an abrupt end to the isolation you have been giving to herpes patients because it is not as deadly and destructive as it seems. Anyone can live with this virus, but when you know how to manage it, you can be in a relationship, make love, have your offsprings and in fact live a happy life while living with this virus. Despite the fact that you may be living with the herpes virus, you had a taste and standard initially regarding friendship and relationship, you shouldn’t compromise a bit perhaps to settle for less.

    Many people who realize that they have herpes automatically feel depressed to find love, they may be judged, always worried if they could spread this virus to their potential partner, they are scared to let this partner know their health status. Apparently, they choose to settle for any partner, someone may below the standard they have set for themselves, this is not the right thing. While there are several things to consider in choosing a partner or when looking for a relationship, herpes shouldn't be a key factor. Facial beauty, appearance, character, fortune, and love are the basic things many people consider before a relationship, this shouldn't take a different lane for anybody living with herpes. Having genital herpes is not a factor that will lower your standards on relationships, rather it is something to with while enjoying your relationship.

    It is true that genital herpes is highly stigmatized to the point that people living will this virus will deliberately want to quit dating and other love related things. Going by the educative and enlightening information that is being passed across steadily, it is up to you as a herpes patient to take up the challenge, and go on the type of relationships you desire. Do not settle for less, herpes is not what people think it is, you can live a happy and enjoy love life while you make the perfect choice for a relationship. Keep your heads up and go for that level of relationships that you want, a standard that you have always wanted.

  • 5 Reasons Why You Should Stop Hating on Herpes Posted by Admin

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    The herpes virus, a sexually transmitted disease has been one of the STIs which many people have a wrong impression. Most American comedies portray the herpes virus as an embarrassing thing that can happen to people who have sex, a stigma that follows you and prevents you from loving and having sex. This view of the herpes has left most patients of herpes ashamed and isolated, people who are free from this virus tend to go far and stay away from these victims. But why can’t we look at herpes from the view of what it is? Of course, there are many reasons that underscore the idea that you shouldn’t hate on the herpes.

    Many People Have It. The herpes virus is a super common STI, virtually about two-thirds of the population has the HSV, and this is true according to the information released by the World Health Organization (WHO). Researchers of the WHO has it that about 3-7 billion people under 50 years have this virus. Going by this statistics, a rational person should understand that the herpes is not much a big deal to freak about because many people have it. If you decide to break up your relationship with your partner because of the herpes virus, you may have a family member with this virus, and unknown to you. Laying much emphasis or hating on the herpes virus is not a way forward, as it is common. If you have the virus, be enlightened and play safe, it is clear that you are not alone.

    You Can Have a Safe Delivery. Every couple would love to have a healthy kid that will look fresh and fly. Unlike some other STIs that harm the fetus, a woman with the herpes virus can still have a safe vaginal delivery when she doesn’t have an outbreak. An infant delivered via an infected vulva stand the risk of infection and perhaps death, the CDC emphasizes that a pregnant woman should strive not to contract a fresh herpes virus during pregnancy, as the rate of outbreaks reduces with time. You should stop hating on the herpes virus as you can have your kids safe and healthy even when you are a herpes patient.

    Preventive Methods Can Reduce your Risk. When a herpes patient is placed under suppressive antiviral medication, its transmission risk is reduced. Contrary to what some people think, you can have sex with your infected partner, and still not contract the virus. When safer sex is practiced, you don’t have to hate on herpes. The use of condoms, abstinence during outbreaks, and therapy helps cut down the risk of contracting this virus. Asymptomatic virus shedding can be prevented using the necessary therapy. There is no gain saying that you can still have a happy, love life while having the virus.

    Herpes is Not the End of Your Love and Sex Life. One common thing about people with the herpes virus is the inability or lack of ‘how to’ communicate their health status to their partner or love interest. The idea portrayed by the naïve culture puts herpes patients in a scenario where they struggle to maintain or find a new love. However, having the HSV doesn’t mark the end of your love life; your real lover will not fail to roll with you once you divulge you status to him. Moreover, there are dating sites for people with herpes; there you can see many individuals who have herpes, perhaps you will find your perfect match there. Albeit it might not be very easy at the beginning, your sex and love life is way far from being over.

    You Will Be Enlightened. Despite that virtually everyone who is diagnosed with this virus undergoes emotional pain and dejection, you will stand to be enlightened and be aware of so many things about STIs. At the initial stage, herpes victims may want to doubt the fact that herpes is not the end of life, but with time, they come to realize and accept their fate. An ordinary person without the herpes virus may not bother or want to know more about STIs, perhaps herpes, thereby being exposed to high risk of contracting it, but a herpes patient strives to know more on how to play safe, live healthily, as well keep their partners safe.

    It is point clear that contracting the virus is not an entirely nice one, but no one gets through life unscathed. There are so many STIs, of which herpes is not the worst, hating on herpes doesn’t showcase what it really means. Herpes patient have the potential to live a life free from stigmatization and isolation, it all lies on us. Stop the marginalization; while you play safe alongside the patients, then we will have a happy world.

  • Beware Of Infections With Herpes During Pregnancy Posted by Admin

    Herpes During Pregnancy

    The Herpes virus is a sexually transmitted disease that is common with people within the sexually active age, it is a viral diseases and currently has no absolute cure. When you look at the consequences of the Herpes virus, and the doom it spells on a pregnant woman, you will be bent in avoiding every possible means of contacting it during pregnancy. Despite the fact that being pregnant is an exciting and happy thing, pregnant women are faced with the challenge of keeping to all healthy warnings that will ensure they keep fit and healthy. Because of low immunity, pregnant women are more susceptible to be infected including viral and bacterial infections.

    The Cytomegalovirus (CMV) is a common virus and a member of the Herpes family and people of all ages can have it. It majorly affects pregnancy, as mostly babies are patients to this deadly virus although it may cause flu-like symptoms in the pregnant woman. A mother with the Herpes virus can infect her baby severely with the genital Herpes virus depending on when she contracted it. It could before pregnancy, during the early stage of the pregnancy or even during delivery. The chances of infecting the baby is very low if the mother contracted the virus before the pregnancy, or during the early period of the pregnancy. However, if the mother gets infected during the later part of the pregnancy, there is higher risk of infecting the baby. This is so because women with prolonged or older cases of Herpes infection are known to have developed antibodies against the virus, these antibodies protects the baby from getting infected through the placenta. When an expectant mother is examined before delivery, and a potential outbreak or reactivation is observed, the ceasarean section is considered for the delivery.

    The fact remains that the mother might overcome or still live with this Herpes virus if the immune system is strong, but babies are still developing theirs, and this can cause problems. If your baby gets infected with the Herpes virus perhaps acutely, it could lead to shock ( lack of proper and enough blood flow to various organs), if not alleviated, it results in coma and eventually death. The effects of infecting a baby with the Herpes virus during pregnancy or even birth can never be over emphasized, as this also can cause vision problems, brain infections (encephalitis, which mostly leads to death), cerebral palsy, skin infection, mouth and multiple organ infection.

    How to avoid the Herpes during pregnancy

    There is the need to act and employ all possible means to ensure you stay away from the Herpes virus during pregnancy. If your partner has the Herpes virus, and you have been meticulous not to contract it, your pregnancy calls for more carefulness as even your unborn baby’s health is at risk. Below are some tips that can help you avoid the Herpes infection during pregnancy.

    • If your partner envisages or is having an active outbreak, do well to avoid direct skin contact with his mouth or genitals, as this exposes you to the risk of contracting the virus.

    • When having sex with your partner, use latex condoms. Although this does not always prevent transmission, it goes a long way in reducing your risk.

    • If your partner has an active cold sore, do not allow him to have an oral sex with you, as this can expose you to genital Herpes.

    • During the third trimester of your pregnancy, it is most important to avoid the Herpes infection as it poses a very high risk. In this scenario, total abstinence is advised, whether your partner has or has no sore or symptoms.

    • If you already have kids who are infected, the virus can easily be transferred from them to you. So there is also the need to avoid intimate contact, association and even looking after them like changing their nappy and using the same eating utensils during pregnancy.

    Pregnancy is precious, and should be guided jealously from the fast rising Herpes virus. Consequently, it is important that pregnant women should go for the Herpes test, as well their sex partners, this will go a long way in making the pregnant woman stay safe if they are Herpes-free. Also, having a proper Herpes test will make the woman take precautionary measures to ensure that the baby doesn’t contract the Herpes infection.

  • America Keeps The Fastest Rising Of Herpes, The Risk And The Future Hope Posted by Admin

    Risk and hope of Herpes

    Herpes is one of the common sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) that any sexually active person can contract. Genital Herpes is caused by two closely related viruses, the Herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) and Herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2). The Herpes is one of the STDs that is on the rise in the United States of America, and the data from CDC shows that America is the fastest Herpes growing country and keeps highest rising one. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, about one out of six people in the United States aged 14 to 49 have genital Herpes caused by the HSV-2.

    Dr. Jonathan Mermin, the director of CDC’s national center for HIV/Aids, Viral Hepatitis, “STD rates are rising, and many of the country’s systems for preventing STDs have eroded.” He said said in a written statement (PDF), “We must mobilize, rebuild and expand services, or the human and economic burden will continue to grow.” However, it is sacrosanct that a level of success has been attained as regards curbing certain STDs. Lately, the cases of syphilis and gonorrhea have steadily dropped over the past couple of decades, this is not so when it comes to genital warts and Herpes. One may wonder why this is so, it is clear that syphilis, gonorrhea, and certain STDs that have their increasing rates reduced, are caused by bacteria, suffice it that they are a bacterial infection and can be addressed with antibiotics. Individuals with these STD’s, when placed on high antibiotics can be alleviated, unlike genital warts and Herpes which are viral diseases (caused by the virus). While there are possibilities of treating the symptoms of a viral disease, there is yet no cure for the illness itself, that is no treatment for the underlying virus.

    Who is at most risk?

    A rational human would think about who is more exposed to this Herpes. Genital warts and Herpes is a sexually transmitted disease and is bound to infect people within the actual sexual age. Sexually active youths without any sense of protection may be the most possible sufferers. Youths are at high risk of Herpes infection because, it is sacrosanct that youths mindlessly engage in various forms of sexual activities; negative attitude towards condom use, safe sex, and education has a lot to do with young adults becoming infected with sexually transmitted infections. It is appalling that many teenagers and young adults are not concerned about catching Herpes, and this makes them act open to sexual experiments, multiple sexual partners, unhygienic oral sex, and having casual and unprotected sex. These even expose them to higher risks of contracting other sexually transmitted disease because STDs are passed from one person through sexual contact. Your STD risk is all about what you do and not who you are, your attitude towards sexual activities discerns your STD risk.

    Studies show that young women’s bodies are biologically more susceptible to STDs, little wonder women have the highest rate of Herpes. African-American women have the highest rate of Herpes infection at 48 percent and are nearly twice as likely as men to be infected.

    Although complications are not rampant, the Herpes simplex virus (HSV) can cause diseases in other parts of the body when it invades it, other than the genital area. These complications are peculiar to the primary genital Herpes and can cause inflammation of the brain (encephalitis), infection of the cerebrospinal fluid (CSF), and inflammation of the lower spinal cord. However, this Herpes can affect the lips (Herpes labialis), they are usually mild but may be treated with antiviral medicines if they become severe. It can also affect the eyes (Herpes keratitis), the hands and fingers (Herpetic whitlow). For people with impaired immune system, the Herpes virus can go as long as affecting their lungs, joints, and liver. In fact, the Herpes virus is a dreadful one, and everyone should strive to avoid it.

    What is the hope for the future, with the fast rising cases of Herpes in America?

    Studies and researches are seriously going on to find a possible cure to this Herpes virus, many health scientists are up to work, ensuring that they get down on this disease by proffering a possible solution.

    Dr. J Sridhar, who is currently researching on the vaccine for Herpes said “Researches are going on in the US regarding the vaccines for HSV and HIV. If successful, it will be a milestone. Similarly, for HSV, we have found out a therapeutic vaccine which may control HSV.”

    However, another promising vaccine to treat the Herpes simplex virus type2 (genital Herpes) is currently undergoing tests, the vaccine which is called GEN-003 is currently in phase II trials, where it is rather doing well. Zeena Nawas, MD, a research fellow at the center for clinical studies in Houston said, “GEN-003, is a promising vaccine if it gets approved it would be the just therapeutic vaccine for genital Herpes or any other infectious disease.” It is proposed that the vaccine will unquestionably prevent transmission of the infection since people are the most contagious during an outbreak or while shedding.

    MPWH (Meet People with Herpes) community suggests that self-education and getting tested regularly are the most efficient ways to protect from Herpes. Perhaps, people will understand that Herpes patients also enjoy a healthy and love lives through proper enlightenment. MPWH tries to give hope to Herpes patients, as they let them meet fellow Herpes patients, making them feel and live a stigma- free, and nondiscriminatory life. Hopefully, there is light at the end of the tunnel with several types of research aiming at producing a sure cure for the Herpes virus.

  • Herpes, Stigma and Ella Dawson Posted by Admin

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    An individual always is emotionally bewildered after diagnosed of having sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). And consider himself being a whore or slut. Worsely, many of us feel people living with herpes virus have to be stigmatized. Ella Dawson, who is famous internet for genital herpes, is the representative person of being stigmatized with herpes in public.

    Genital herpes is a form of genital infection caused by the herpes simplex virus. Herpes is a sexually transmitted disease (STD) which can be contacted by through vaginal, anal, or oral sex with an infected person. Genital herpes, in most cases, is asymptomatic; as most people with genital herpes may have no symptoms. Sometimes, people with herpes might show mild symptoms that may not be identified as a sign of infection. The symptom of herpes includes painful lesions on the mouth or genitals.

    Today, genital herpes infections have raised strong emotional issues among people, which made victims a subject of stigmatization. According to a survey about relationship carried out in 2007, genital herpes is the second STD (after HIV) that is associated with high levels of social stigma. Herpes-related stigma comes in two forms: self stigma and enacted stigma. Self-stigma refers to individuals’ negative perception such as: feeling of shame, depression, embarrassment, self-blame, guilt about themselves, it has often been the reactions of many people with herpes infection in their first few weeks or months after diagnosis. Enacted stigma, on the other hand, includes discrimination, rejection, avoidance, disrespect of the infected people by others. The intense emotional stress created by the infection has frustrated people to disclose their statuses openly. When Ella Dawson twitted “I’m a slut, and I have herpes. I still am a person who deserves respect,” as part of her campaign to remove the “cultural stigma” surrounding sexually transmitted diseases; she receives accolades from many people, especially Hillary Clinton, who described her as being “brave and insightful”. So why should herpes infection generate such emotional disorder? Why should stigma be associated with the herpes virus? Stigma is an obstruction to the prevention and treatment of all forms of STDs, including genital herpes. In fact, it could lead to increase of the incidence of infection as victims refuse to notify partners of the exposure. Therefore, it is necessary to stop giving the victims bad names, as most of them are not bad as you may think. What is important is joining hands together in dealing with this scourge!

    For those people living with the virus, and thinking death is only options left, Do keep calm. Herpes do not kill you, but depression kills faster! You should be aware that about 67% of the world population has herpes virus and still living happy and healthy lives. Also, people with genital herpes or oral herpes go on to date, get married, stay married, and of course, have a plethora of sex! Knowing your herpes status and disclosing is as Ella does, is beginning of being confident of yourself and also taking it off your mind.

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