• A constant worry - Can you get herpes with a condom? Posted by Admin

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    Genital herpes is a very common sexually transmitted infection – STI - caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV). Sexual contact is the primary way that the virus spreads but could also be spread by contact with body fluids. After the initial infection, the virus is dormant in your body and can flare up several times a year.

    Genital herpes causes pain, itching, and sores in the genital area. On the other hand, you may have no signs or symptoms of genital herpes and still harbor the infection. If infected, note that it is contagious even if you have no visible sores.

    No cure is available, but meds ease the symptoms which manifest themselves 2 to 12 days after infection. The symptoms help us identify if our partner is infected and are; pain or itching in the genital area, red bumps, tiny blisters, ulcers, and scabs.

    Herpes and condoms – Are they effective and how to make sure?

    Condoms present the best way to avoid getting infected with herpes and there are two types of condoms.

    . Male condoms

    . Female condoms

    . Dental dams for use during oral sex

    But this brings us to the fulcrum of the issue, and that is – can you still get infected with herpes even with the use of a condom.

    A condom – male, female, or dental dams – is the only way available to prevent an infection of herpes from a partner. However, it does not give a hundred percent protection but reduces the risk by about 30 percent.

    Getting graphic

    Most people think that if they are using condoms during sex then, they will not contract any kind of sexually transmitted disease. That is definitely not the case and the problem is not just the contact through the act of intercourse but there are other types of contact as well such as skin to skin contact on other parts of the body.

    . Oral sex: during oral sex, the mouth is in contact with the genital area of the partner – possible transmission through the skin to skin contact.

    . Anal sex: most people engage in anal sex or even just fooling around with or without sex toys. And, the problem is that they seem to think that that area does not transmit anything even though it is the primary cause of HIV infection in gays.

    . Foreplay or pre-sex interactions.

    . Even simple kissing is a cause for the transmission of herpes.

    So, you can get herpes even if you are using a condom, but it reduces the risk by as much as 30 percent. Also, we need to understand or rather realize that they do not cover all the genital areas. The other issue is that most couples only wear a condom just before penetration.

    If two partners are in the stage of foreplay and say the man has herpes somewhere on his body. If a drop of ejaculate or penile moisture come on his partner's hand and sometime later she rubs her eyes, she will eventually come to discover at a later date that she has herpes in her eyes even if they used condoms when it got serious.

    How to choose your condoms

    . Use a new latex condom or dental dam for each sex act, whether oral, vaginal or anal.

    . Never use an oil-based lubricant, such as petroleum jelly, with a latex condom or dental dam.

    . Condoms made from natural membranes are not recommended since they're not as effective at preventing STIs.

    . Make sure that you buy your condoms from a trusted drug store.

    . The brand and manufacture will ensure that it does not break during intercourse.

    Modes of infection

    This is the area that causes the most confusion since the general understanding is that genital contact is the only way for transmission. Skin to skin contact with an infected person either with flare-ups, sores, outbreaks, or even non-symptomatic can cause infection. Secretions from the body such as moisture, saliva, ejaculate can transmit herpes.

    Risk factors

    Some factors increase the possibility of contracting herpes and they are:

    . A new partner

    . Open relationships or marriage

    . More than one partner at a time

    Conclusion

    . Get regular check-ups especially if you are a high-risk factor.

    . Most herpes is treated so, go to the doctor.

    . Take care that some are symptomless at the beginning so, get tested regularly.

    . Be open and frank with your partner and encourage openness before reaching the stage of having sex.

  • Herpes Shouldn’t Be Your Top Reason On Turning Down From Being Cast On ‘The Bachelor’ Posted by Admin

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    Herpes is cause by a virus which makes it a viral disease. It may affect different parts of the body depending on the mode of infection. There are two different types of herpes; oral herpes, genital herpes and their forms of transmission are through kissing, oral sex, vaginal sex and anal sex.

    When you find out that you have herpes they first feeling you get is embarrassment. This is closely followed by the feeling that you are no longer fit to date or even end up with another person permanently. There is however no reason at all for you to feel this way because there is help available. There is also a wealth of knowledge on how to manage the symptoms, discomfort and pain.

    It will take a while for you to start feeling better but with the proper medication there is no reason for you to stay single for long. It is however wise for you to stay alone for a while so that you allow your body to get well. If you have herpes but are getting better, you might feel like it’s time to get back into dating. While waiting and hoping someone will come along may help, taking initiative is way better. Dating sites are one way to go and ‘The bachelor’ is another.

    On ‘The Bachelor’ with herpes

    ‘The Bachelor’ is a nationally acclaimed televised dating competition which anyone can take part in to find the ultimate bachelor to be with. It is a serious TV show and there is a screening process for those who wish to take part in it.

    Despite the fact that most potential contestants are rejected because they have herpes, the screening process involves much more than the medical tests. It is possible to assume that if a contestant were to flop all the other tests and then test positive for herpes, then herpes would not be the only reason but one of the reasons.

    Just the fact that it is said that it is the main reason people don’t get on the bachelor should not deter you from trying because quitters never live to tell the story. You should definitely try and here’s why:

    . You are not defined by your situation

    Herpes just like any other disease is manageable. When you decide to try out for the bachelor, you just might surprise yourself and pass all the other tests in the screening process. The producers of the show say that the medical report is not the only determinant.

    When you have taken medication for herpes, then you are being proactive about help and this should be considered.

    . Many people suffer from herpes

    Since the percentage of the population that suffers from herpes is very big, it should not be the determining factor as to why you should not be cast on ‘the bachelor’. If everyone was to be judged about the future based on past mistakes and experiences, then none of us would be where we are. Sometimes it becomes so easy to dwell on the past instead of learning from it and moving on. There is therefore no point in condemning yourself and your condition should not inhibit your ambition or your chance to be on the bachelor.

    . It is possible to have a healthy dating relationship even with Herpes because:

    1. Herpes is not a life-threatening disease and there is no reason why two people cannot be in a relationship because of it. It is however important to let your partner know or in this case the ‘bachelor’ should you be accepted into the competition. Herpes does not have the ability to stop two people from being in love neither can it kill the love that is there.

    2. When the infected person takes medication to suppress the condition, the chances of infection in the uninfected partner are reduced by about 73%. In the case of sexual intercourse, using a condom and taking medication at the same time reduced chances of infection by 98%. It should be possible to take part in the competition provided you are taking all the necessary precautions. Communication is what is important for any relationship to work.

    3. Since herpes is a virus, the more an infected person has it, the less the frequency of outbreaks. This is because the body develops immunity to the virus. As time goes by, the outbreaks significantly reduce which means that this should not be a definite determinant of how your life should be in future. It is quite possible to live a normal life.

    In ‘The Bachelor’ there is a policy on confidentiality but despite this, it is important to accept your situation. Once you accept it, it is possible to move towards positive living. Taking part in such a show irrespective of your condition will only serve to make you stronger. You will realize that herpes does not define who you are or where you are headed, it just alerts you to the dangers to your health around you. If the producers of this show have dwelled so much on herpes as a disease, they should rethink their strategy because it is not enough to prevent people who might just be soul mates from meeting because of something that is manageable.

  • New Wave of Online Sex Education Posted by Admin

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    The sex education and its debate seem to be no end. There were many studies across the world. However, no studies helped the sex education the way they should have. Sometimes some of the methods seem very effective on paper or in theory. When it is implemented, there has been no such effect on the students. One such technique or the method is abstinence-based teaching in school. Initially, there was a lot of scope for the theory but as time changed, it faced a lot of criticism for the method and its effectiveness. After that, there were new theories and methods.

    According to the report of different state governments of the USA based on abstinence-based teaching in school, there was no improvement. Even though there will be classes specially designed for the purpose. There will be teachers who will educate the students on different aspects of the sex life. The education includes the safe sex, premature sex, effects of the unprotected sex, pregnancy control and many more concepts of sex education. All of the information includes practical and graphical teaching as well.

    In Delaware USA there was another case of the sexual assault on a Teen, which led the people to opt for online sex education. There will be different types of the sex education programs. There will be no one to group education to the students. The sex education method includes series of steps, guidelines and the tips for the perfect sex education. All you need to do is opt-in for the program. Once you finish understanding of one program, you will be directed to the next program. There will be one teacher for everyone. They can participate in the program, whenever they want. The Delaware Redding ton school incident also raised the questions on the effectiveness of abstinence-based sex education program.

    Parent consent and decision

    It is very important that the parents should feel comfortable with the sex education program. The abstinence-based sex education in school might lead to the unnecessary embarrassment, information and other kinds of ill effects. As there is no supervision of parents, they may feel and worry about the type of education their child is receiving. However, in the online sex education system. The parents will have control over the type of education they are receiving. If they feel, there is no need for particular program and information then they can avoid it. So parental control is a big effect overall.

    R-North Ogden and the Rep. Justin Fawson thought of introducing legislation for the introduction of an online sex education program for individuals, students, and the parents. They touched this taboo topic to provide the complete details about the dangers of the unsafe sex and programs for safe sex. The online sex education program will cover all the aspects of the sex from the frequency of sex to the STD information, like herpes prevention on sex education.

    According to the research by the family growth and the national survey, the risk in the sex education includes a high rate of success. The success rate includes 50 percent more than the abstinence-based education system.

    It was evident that the growth rate of the family did not stop. In the abstinence-based program, there might be good education information but because of some unknown reason, it did not have the same kind of effect in reality. Therefore, the online sex education is more comfortable. Even though the failure is high but the effect on risk factor like unprotected sex is good in the abstinence-based sex education. It is also found that 13 states found it that they did not find any positive results because of the sex education in school.

    Sexual teaching for lesbians

    There was another new study by the University of British Columbia, Innovative Public Health and the City University of New York explained the problems in lesbians, homosexual and heterosexual about the dangers. These institutions also reported that the teens do not even know about the sexually transmitted infections. That is why the need for the online sex education is very important for everyone.

    Even though many mainstream news portals left out the topic of sex education but people are somewhat interested in understanding the effects of sex education. Many parents are buying the sex education DVD’s, programs and books online to study and understand the difference between online sex education and abstinence sex education.

    Guttmacher Institute reported that around 80 percent adolescents between ages 15 to 20 received sex education in their school or the churches about the information on the STI. Only 50 percent of them received information about birth control. There are already few online sex education programs available, which have a better result than abstinence-based teaching. It is interesting to see how long it takes to see the effectiveness of the education.

  • Why is Herpes on the Rise Among Pregnant Women? Posted by Admin

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    The infection with the genital herpes simplex virus, commonly known as HSV or just herpes, is a very common disease that is sexually transmitted. Women are more vulnerable to that virus, especially when they are at reproductive age.

    Herpes infection is not a main cause of worry at adult age. The infection, although not cured, can be controlled. The main concern about the HSV virus is with passing it on to newborn children.

    In newborn babies, the infection has a very high mortality rate. Even when treated at early stages, the herpes infection can leave severe disabilities on the affected children. Herpes can also induce early labor, causing the baby to be born ahead of time.

    Neonatal herpes

    Although herpes in adults is a very common disease, neonatal herpes fortunately is not. Babies are most in danger of being infected when the mother contracts the disease towards the end of the pregnancy.

    That is because there is not enough time for the body of the mother to produce enough antibodies to fight the infection, causing it to spread more easily. When in early stages of the infection, herpes is more active and appears frequently.

    The infection occurs when the baby has direct contact with the herpes on the birth canal during labor. When the mother has enough antibodies, they may be able to protect the baby, even if the infection is active. That is why the risk is greater if the contraption has happened at late stages of pregnancy.

    Rise on the infections

    It is estimated that approximately 45 million people are infected by the herpes virus in USA alone. It is more common in women. Almost 1 in every 4 women in reproductive age are infected. The male-female type of transmission is more effective, so women are more vulnerable to herpes.

    Since the 1970s the number of herpes cases in the USA has increased around 30%. The most affected group are teenagers starting their sexual lives.

    Herpes can infect the body but not manifest any symptoms for a while, which can cause the spread of it by people that did not know they were infected.

    Although condoms are not 100% effective on stopping herpes transmission, they are very helpful on decreasing the chance of infection. People are consistently having sex without protection. That causes the increase of STDs and herpes is the most common of them.

    Pregnant women are a high-risk group and should take extra care. That lack of care is causing the increase of herpes infection during pregnancy and the consequent increase on neonatal herpes.

    Prevention

    The most important thing to prevent being infected is not to have sex with anyone while they are having an outbreak. That is the most dangerous time for being infected.

    Herpes is passed through skin contact so, when there is an outbreak, even condoms or other forms of safer sex may not be effected. If they don’t cover the entire affected area, it is still a very high risk.

    Again, pregnant women should be extra careful especially on the last trimester of pregnancy. If the pregnant woman already has herpes, a few precautions are due to insure the safety of the baby.

    Protecting the baby

    If the mother has had genital herpes for some time, the risk of spreading it to the baby is minimum. Still, there is some precautions she needs to take.

    Firstly, talk to the obstetrician and be clear about having herpes. The obstetrician will be aware and able to decide the best way to deal with it during labor.

    If there is an outbreak during the delivery, a caesarean might be the safest way for the baby to be born.

    After the birth, watch the baby carefully for about three weeks. If any signs appear, take it to the doctor immediately and tell the doctor about the herpes.

    By taking some simple cares, the health of the baby is assured and the mother can have a safe pregnancy and labor. Talk to the doctors and do the necessary for keeping the baby healthy.

  • Hickeys Are Not Always Linked to Romantic For People With Oral Herpes Posted by Admin

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    Hickey is a bruise caused by excessive sucking or biting of the soft spots on the body, most notably the neck and inner thighs.

    The skin layer under the outer skin surface has a lot of blood capillaries which may break if exposed to too much pressure. The results are the reddening and swelling of the skin. It then turns to reddish purple as time goes by and finally turns to a yellow blotch.

    Some people find it romantic and flaunt them like trophies while others may go for concealer to hide them. But the fact remains that all bruises are not pleasing at all.

    Hickeys and oral herpes

    Many people know that herpes is a sexually transmitted disease. But do you know that there is also oral herpes?

    Oral herpes is characterized by small pustules in the mouth. The pustules turn to cold sores which are red on the lip and mouth.

    When engaging in sex and your partner happens to be having oral herpes, then you'd better to pay attention for it. The little hickey you get might result in you contracting the virus if one of their cold sores is active. The body contact against yours can result in the virus moving right from their mouth to your bloodstream via the broken part of your skin.

    Issues worth noting

    Whatever the circumstances, you must never have any sexual contact with a person suffering from herpes unless you want to contract the disease or you know how to manage it. You may be caught in the heat of the moment and forget about all these. But no! Don't let it happen.

    When the cold sores are active, the chances of transmitting herpes to your partner are so high, so the best thing is to avoid because you may actually not know whether or not the sores are active.

    However much seductive love bites are, they can lead to the transmission of herpes. And if you thought that condom was enough to protect you against the sexually transmitted infection, then it's a high time you get this new revelation.

    If your partner has herpes and happens to bite you, you will contract the disease too. So be sure whom you go out with and especially if it is someone new.

    Other very critical facts that you need to know about hickeys:

    Hickeys Are Bruises

    The tiny blood vessels that break when hit hard leaves a bruise. Hickeys are as a result of the breaking of these blood capillaries which comes after the specific part of the body is hit hard. They are not all that serious just like hitting a table or bed; only that sucking must be there to make them happen.

    Iron Deficient people Get Hickeys Easier

    If you do not have enough iron in your body, you will bruise easily. A love bite shows that you are iron deficient. If hickeys are what turns you on, a diet rich in red meat and dark leafy vegetables is a must for you.

    It's easier to get Hickeys on certain parts of the body

    Some of the body parts are more prone to hickeys than others. Those parts of the body with delicate and thin skin such as the neck, lips, inner arm, and chest tend to bruise easily when hit hard. The tiny blood vessels in these areas rapture easily.

    Hickeys have no real cure

    There are so many alleged things that are said to cure hickeys. Some of them include using ice packs, a hot towel press, putting a spoon of honey on the spot that has been affected, among many others. But since hickey is an internal damage, all these cannot cure it but may just help in suppressing the swelling and inflammation. The best cure is just to wait and let it heal naturally.

    Hickeys can truly leave a scar though it may not be all that conspicuous. Although other people may not notice it, you always know wherever it is.

    Hickeys Can Cause Strokes

    Yes, they can! If your partner sucks you so much so deep, it may result in the creation of a blood clot. The blood clot can move up to the brain via the veins and cause stroke. Hickeys are taken to be sexual injuries and may need some form of treatment.

    A love bite is one of the common sex injuries whether it is on your neck, thigh, lip or any other part of your body. Hickey causes damage to your blood vessels and this could be romantic or not depending on specific individuals.

    Hickeys are a mild form of internal bleeding and require some medical attention otherwise it might turn out to be serious. Hickeys only appear on the soft and sensitive parts of the body. When you damage the skin around these areas, you end up affecting the nervous system. It may result in paralysis and or slow movement.

    The bottom line to the whole issue surrounding hickeys is to engage in safe sex. Since hickey is a sex-related injury, let the few minutes of fun not lead to any severe damage to the body. Talk to your partner and tell them to go easy on hickeys.

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