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  • Back To It

    I took a little time off of MPWH to focus on other things. I didn't leave the site, but I didn't spend much time on it, either, and I didn't really respond to likes, winks, etc. But now, after sorting a few things out (and losing 13 pounds), I'm ready to start seeking that special someone again!

  • Sparky's Deal of the Day 10/12/21


    It's Tuesday Friend...where do you draw the line?


    We've all got to deal with boundaries and if you're here with me you've got some to deal with that a lot of other people don't.


    You and I have a different risk framework and that impacts us in some very subtle ways...and some pretty obvious ones too.


    You've got my take...let me know what you think.


    -J(more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/11/21

    Welcome Friend,

    What's the deal with attraction anyway?

    You hear about the law of attraction, and most everyone's profile is (or should be) designed to promote that person's attractive character.

    I invite you to check out my thoughts in the video below and let me know what you think the deal is with attraction.

    https:||youtu.be/73ztHEW4Ct4

    (copy/paste and change the pipes to //)

    -JustHew

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/10/21

    Good evening Friend, Sometimes there's just no dealing with it...whatever that 'it" happens to be for you.

    There's a ton of noise and a seemingly constant pull from other people to live within the framework of an agenda that you didn't set. There are those who would tell you that you haven't sacrificed enough, those who would have you give up your independence and autonomy to 'part of something bigger'...really?

    Simple message today friend...build YOUR agenda.

    Give when, where and as much as of yourself, your time, your ene(more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/10/21

    Good evening Friend, Sometimes there's just no dealing with it...whatever that 'it" happens to be for you.

    There's a ton of noise and a seemingly constant pull from other people to live within the framework of an agenda that you didn't set. There are those who would tell you that you haven't sacrificed enough, those who would have you give up your independence and autonomy to 'part of something bigger'...really?

    Simple message today friend...build YOUR agenda.

    Give when, where and as much as of yourself, your time, your ene(more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/09/21

    BOO!!!! Friend...

    Why, you look like you've seen a ghost. Or maybe countless ghosts...because who actually counts them after all. Perhaps you ARE a ghost, or SEEM like one to others.

    According to the innerwebs, ghosting has something to do with suddenly dropping all connections to another person, perhaps even blocking them etc. Pretty much every source colors this in some sort of negative light.

    I'm still adjusting to the idea of dating for the first time in almost 20 years and I'm curious Friend... 

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  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/08/21

    Feels like Friday eh, Friend?

    I'm curious...Tell me friend, what's YOUR deal today?

    It's been about a week since I dove into this 'experience' with you. Some of you were here before and others arrived even more recently than I. What an eye-opening experience it has been so far.

    Despite the noise and CHAOS of the app-based dating model and the scammers and hustlers that come with it I've found at least an initial connection with a small number of you. The CRAZY COOL part is that we probably don't fit each other's 'criteria'.(more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/07/21

    Good evening friend,

    Sparky, you can't make me a deal good enough to buy that boat!

    I've often heard it said that a boat is a hole in the water you throw money into. Never having owned a boat personally, I'm going to have to trust the crowd on that one. I can attest that owning a stock car for dirt track racing generally results in a similar experience. I believe Felix Sabates of SABCO racing was asked how to make a small fortune in racing. His answer, "Start with a large one."

    Perhaps the same thing can be said of divorce. Ce(more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/06/21 (reposted)

    Welcome friend, here's the deal... Your infinity is worth less than your permission. Have you traded it in yet?

    Yeah, I had a WTF moment right there too. My response? "There's no way I'm giving up my infinity, my divine power of being, to anyone or anything. WAAAAAYYYYYY too much has been taken from me already." And then I laughed...at my own irony. Go ahead, you can too. They say laughter is the best medicine.

    I paused a moment to reflect on the things I'd not given myself permission to do because of my condition. I gave myself space to t(more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/05/21 (reposted)

    Hello friend...What's your deal today?

    Last I checked in we were looking into what we want and how we want it...where to put that emphasis if you will. We took a moment to acknowledge the destructive nature of eliminating too much and living in the questioning pattern too deeply.

    So many of you have terrific profiles that outline precisely what you want, and to you I say "Well done, friend!". It's likely that you've put in a shit load of work to get to that level of clarity...a METRIC FUCKTON! And having done that level of work, I believe (more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/04/21 (reposted)

    Greetings friend!

    "It seems like yesterday. But it was long ago. Janey was lovely, she was the queen of my nights. There in the darkness with the radio playlng low." - Against the Wind, by Bob Seger.

    One of my favorite songs from as early as I can remember and just as relevant today as it ever has been. Facing headwinds is something we all deal with, and especially when the course of our lives changes unexpectedly as it does with a diagnosis.

    When faced with something like a treatable but not-fucking-curable condition that (more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/03/21 (reposted)

    Here's the deal...Sometimes you just can't make this shit up.

    A wise man once told me "all the best stories are true". Okay, I don't know if he was truly a wise man or not and I'm pretty sure someone else said it before he did. But he was one of my favorite profs in college and those words always return to me when odd shit happens. This morning was no exception.

    If you've looked over my profile or read other posts you might already know that I'm not a drinker (anymore). Without going too far into the weeds suffice to say I didn't always ge(more)

  • Sparky's Deal of The Day - 10/02/21 (reposted)

    Hello friend. I do hope I can say that without getting in trouble...some of you likely know why.

    At any rate welcome to the blog. It seems fitting that while I could have begun a day earlier and aligned with the new month, it's still 2021 and near as I can tell nothing is going to plan for ANYONE. Let's be honest, if shit was great for you you'd be somewhere else doing something (or someone) that doesn't involve dealing with our shared reality of an incurable medical condition that fucks our sex life and relationships (pun intended).

    I've (more)

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