I think a flexible evening on the town would be a nice way to meet. We could spend a few minutes tossing ideas tentatively back and forth playing the clever first date game of adorably trying not to say what we really wa... see more >>
I think a flexible evening on the town would be a nice way to meet. We could spend a few minutes tossing ideas tentatively back and forth playing the clever first date game of adorably trying not to say what we really want to eat. After we laugh at how silly we are being, we'll make a quick decision. Maybe even flip a coin! Dinner will be relaxed and full of laughs, a few smiles, awkward first date moments where we pretend not to notice the food stuck in each other's teeth.
I'll ask you all about what you do, what you enjoy, and what makes you want to get out of bed in the morning. You will probably ask me a few questions and i'll mention something unusual in passing hoping to have the chance to impress you with my knowledge of some obscure subject. You'll smile politely, nodding your head, and I sincerely hope you'll interject with an opinion rather than letting me ramble!
Dinner will have ended by this time. Hopefully you're having as good a time as I am. I'll say "let's grab a cocktail somewhere fun and continue this conversation. I'm particularly interested in what you said earlier about your favorite science fiction tv show"
By this time, we'll both be feeling relaxed and open to sharing about the things that really matter to us. You'll tell me a few things about you that I should know. I'll listen attentively and without judgement. I'll tell you the same about me. We will both feel more comfortable with each other and maybe, just maybe, we'll catch that spark. The little twinkle of something. Butterflies and smiles.
By now we will both be getting kinda tired. We'll part ways and debate whether or not to text each other. "Is that too clingy? I don't want to seem desperate..." But come on we are adults! We'll text each other and be genuine about how we feel so we don't become a cliché. Then, we'll set up a second date!
I think bowling or a movie might be nice. Bowling means we could talk, have fun, and trash talk. Movies mean I can see what you like but it doesn't really let us get to know each other.
I would have to say anything besides the movies. A first date should be somewhere we can talk and have a couple of thinks and let our true selfs come out. LOL!!! Perhaps dinner, topgolf something along those lines.
On the 1st date my main focus is getting to know you better so my ideal date would leave lots of room for conversation. How about a picnic under the stars or a late night drive? I'm a night owl. I'm also very easy going... see more >>
On the 1st date my main focus is getting to know you better so my ideal date would leave lots of room for conversation. How about a picnic under the stars or a late night drive? I'm a night owl. I'm also very easy going, and open minded.. I can say that I find it extremely attractive when a man plans outings for us himself
I am not very picky, dinner and drinks, concert and movie, walk in the park? Be charming, a gentleman, and make me laugh and I am up for almost anything.
I like to be active on a date, not just sit and eat. I would like to go bowling, shoot pool, or something similar where we can chat & get to know each other & flirt.
I can go with the default drinks/coffee, but usually like to do stuff like go to a show, a game, bowling, or other random activity that is going on at the time.