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View author's info ( 40, Man | Colorado Springs, CO, USA )

Let's start with something simple and see where it goes. Mid-evening drinks can easily lead to dinner. If the opportunity exists it would be great if we were somewhere fun - near a carnival, or a street festival, for ins... see more >>

Let's start with something simple and see where it goes. Mid-evening drinks can easily lead to dinner. If the opportunity exists it would be great if we were somewhere fun - near a carnival, or a street festival, for instance. A little dancing to live music never hurt...
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View author's info ( 44, Man | Calgary, AB, CAN )

Let's just go out somewhere, grab a bite and a drink, and have some fun - I'll give you a 100% not boring guarantee.
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View author's info ( 34, Woman | Detroit, MI, USA )

Lets visit a local planetarium to star gaze then discuss the lecture over dinner.
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View author's info ( 55, Woman | Denver, CO, USA )

Concerts, Comedy show. Peoples Fair.
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View author's info ( 32, Man | Oak Park, IL, USA )

I think a flexible evening on the town would be a nice way to meet. We could spend a few minutes tossing ideas tentatively back and forth playing the clever first date game of adorably trying not to say what we really wa... see more >>

I think a flexible evening on the town would be a nice way to meet. We could spend a few minutes tossing ideas tentatively back and forth playing the clever first date game of adorably trying not to say what we really want to eat. After we laugh at how silly we are being, we'll make a quick decision. Maybe even flip a coin! Dinner will be relaxed and full of laughs, a few smiles, awkward first date moments where we pretend not to notice the food stuck in each other's teeth. I'll ask you all about what you do, what you enjoy, and what makes you want to get out of bed in the morning. You will probably ask me a few questions and i'll mention something unusual in passing hoping to have the chance to impress you with my knowledge of some obscure subject. You'll smile politely, nodding your head, and I sincerely hope you'll interject with an opinion rather than letting me ramble! Dinner will have ended by this time. Hopefully you're having as good a time as I am. I'll say "let's grab a cocktail somewhere fun and continue this conversation. I'm particularly interested in what you said earlier about your favorite science fiction tv show" By this time, we'll both be feeling relaxed and open to sharing about the things that really matter to us. You'll tell me a few things about you that I should know. I'll listen attentively and without judgement. I'll tell you the same about me. We will both feel more comfortable with each other and maybe, just maybe, we'll catch that spark. The little twinkle of something. Butterflies and smiles. By now we will both be getting kinda tired. We'll part ways and debate whether or not to text each other. "Is that too clingy? I don't want to seem desperate..." But come on we are adults! We'll text each other and be genuine about how we feel so we don't become a cliché. Then, we'll set up a second date!

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View author's info ( 30, Woman | San Pablo, CA, USA )

I think bowling or a movie might be nice. Bowling means we could talk, have fun, and trash talk. Movies mean I can see what you like but it doesn't really let us get to know each other.
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View author's info ( 25, Man | Kingston, Hanover, Jamaica )

movie and romantic dinner
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View author's info ( 46, Man | Bloomington, IN, USA )

Yes, that is the idea is to have a first date.
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View author's info ( 23, Woman | Loveland, CO, USA )

A night under the stars and a box of pizza... Maybe some cheap wine :)
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View author's info ( 28, Woman | Port Chester, NY, USA )

Coffee or lunch somewhere laid back.
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View author's info ( 38, Man | San Francisco, CA, USA )

Let's figure out what we have in common and then find a new place we've never been.
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View author's info ( 46, Man | Fairdale, KY, USA )

Prefer activities where we can talk and hear one another. Activities which lead to touching however innocent is even better.
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View author's info ( 32, Woman | Decatur, GA, USA )

I would have to say anything besides the movies. A first date should be somewhere we can talk and have a couple of thinks and let our true selfs come out. LOL!!! Perhaps dinner, topgolf something along those lines.
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View author's info ( 44, Woman | Salem, OR, USA )

Having a couple of drinks to calm the nerves or going for a walk on the waterfront.
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View author's info ( 26, Man | Southaven, MS, USA )

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