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thxxxxxx

West Sacramento, CA, USA

Coffee or light food. While we get to see if we have any chemistry or click. If you don't like that then best of luck to you. Then we can take it from there if we want to go out again.
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LVxxxxxx

Arlington, VA, USA

Meet for a casual cup of coffee or beer/drink. All good? Make plans for a hike (or another fun outdoor activity), dinner, movie + dinner (so we can talk about the film)...
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wixxxxxx

Acampo, CA, USA

For a first date, how about we explore a local café, where we can enjoy some good coffee and conversation? We could also take a walk around the area, maybe visit a nearby park or cultural spot. It’s a great way to get to know each other in a relaxed and enjoyable setting.
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Unxxxxxx

Bangkok, Bangkok, THA

How about starting with coffee or tea at a cozy café to break the ice, followed by a walk in a park or along a beach to enjoy a relaxed conversation? If you’re up for it, maybe explore something fun like a local food market or an art exhibit!
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Muxxxxxx

Reston, VA, USA

Coffee? I am new into the dating thing again. My Wife of 13 years died of cancer. I have had 4 1/2 years to prepare for that eventually. :-(
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Spxxxxxx
First dates should be in a public place and very casual.... coffee would be ideal and going Dutch so no one is paying for the other.... if it goes well then dinner would be a good option and same rules on keeping casual/nothing too fancy
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shxxxxxx

Mount Laurel, NJ, USA

Let's get coffee or tea and get to know each other a little I feel like that's the safest thing on most menus
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msxxxxxx

Federal Way, WA, USA

let's meet for coffee. see if we have chemistry. be good friends and see where it goes. I think expectations let you down so I'm looking for a good friend mainly and anything extra is a plus.
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Nixxxxxx

Pleasant Hill, CA, USA

Not to extravagant, just coffee, and a bite to eat sounds fun. If it goes well, we can plan the next date.
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Raxxxxxx

Camberley, ENG, GBR

It's just a simple chat. No rules or anything. We can decide where and when. Can be for an hour or even forever:) Hopefully, we get on well, and you and I will be the only date we need
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Maxxxxxx

Morehead City, NC, USA

Get a cup of coffee or maybe go for drinks. It should be long enough to have conversation but not too long.
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TMxxxxxx

Lakewood, CA, USA

Meet for coffee and conversation. Have a bite to eat, something easy and comfortable, talk and see if we have a connection.
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Maxxxxxx

Hiram, GA, USA

A nice conversation over coffee or brunch . I don't expect over the top on a first date but I don't mind be surprised .
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Nixxxxxx

Edmonton, AB, CAN

Go to a cafe talk a bit maybe go for a walk. I guess it depends on our connection. We would make the plan together
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Gexxxxxx

Fredericksburg, VA, USA

I like margaritas, coffee, tea. I watch my carb intake. I am a very simple person I try to live a minimalist lifestyle.
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Vixxxxxx

San Antonio, TX, USA

A comedy show to shake off the nervousness followed with a road trip if your comfortable to sixth Street or to a restaurant of your choice
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Elxxxxxx

Canby, OR, USA

Let's meet for coffee or drinks and see how that goes. No pressure. Can have a great beverage while getting to know each other.
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moxxxxxx

Des Moines, IA, USA

Would love to grab coffee and just see if we vibe. No expectations, I just want to meet you. The real you behind the mask we all wear.
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spxxxxxx

Carluke, SLK, GBR

Not really into full on romantic dinners would prefer a bag of (gluten free) chips at a loch or doing an escape room, but I am open to coming up with something mutual.
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Toxxxxxx

Wasaga Beach, ON, CAN

Sharing a coffee as well as conversation at a cafe is always a good way to get to know someone without too much pressure.
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